| 1970's Film Producer: |
"Sexual harassment was expected . . . it was standard
practice. Women starting to work now have no idea what it was like just a
generation ago." |
| 1980's TV writer: |
“[When it happens] you have to decide how much you care
about the project, how much you want/need the job, how much you want/need to
work again . . . It's no different if you meet a racist or an anti-Semite,
depending on how severe the remark is, do you make a scene or don't you?
Afterward, if you don't, there's a lot of self-recrimination." |
| 1990's Executive: |
"Many men's attitude about women, how they keep women in
their place, is through a kind of . . . belittlement. It’s always about power.
Men use their sexuality for self-importance.” [i]
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In 2004, when a television producer told me, “Sexual harassment is still
going on,” I believed her even though by then the chorus of public opinion, not
known for its track record, had pronounced harassment all but gone. Bald eagles
were ‘all but gone’ but they’re still here. I’m glad about the eagles.
Is harassment gone or not? I began researching. On a call to the Screen
Actors Guild, imagine my surprise when I heard on the telephone menu, "If this
is an emergency regarding personal on-the-set safety or sexual harassment, press
one."
Bingo. I began to interview people working in film and
television. Is sexual harassment still here? Is it different? What can women and
men do about it? I learned a lot.
For a long time sexual harassment was a stifled, private mayhem, never seen,
never mentioned. Now everyone at work is aware of the need, legally, to watch
out for it. That’s a big change, and there are others, too. The first section of
this article is about harassment today, what’s different, what’s the same. The
second part takes a swing at what those changes may reveal: a current of
behavior for which we don’t yet have a name, like a new disease. Maybe it’s an
old one that needs a new name.
Putting a name to an act or an attitude focuses our reaction to it. Women
have been fending off sexual harassment, and detesting it, for centuries but the
“stress of furtive molestations” didn’t have a name until the summer of 1975
when a remarkable group of women, including Susan Brownmiller and Catherine
MacKinnon, met at Cornell University. They realized that “to a person, every one
of us . . . had had an experience like this . . . And none of us had ever told
anyone before.” To break the silence, they needed a name for it. “We wanted
something that embraced a whole range of subtle and unsubtle persistent
behaviors. Someone came up with ‘harassment.’ Sexual harassment!”[ii]
A crucial move.
Your basic sexual harassment
According to Webster’s dictionary, to harass means “ . . . to raid, harry,
worry, impede by repeated attacks . . . to vex, trouble or annoy continually or
chronically: plague, bedevil, badger."
That describes it quite well. Producer Judith James (Quiz Show,
Mr. Holland’s Opus) enlarges on the theme:
“It’s the entitled humiliating the un-entitled, the women. We’ve all had
sexual harassment in our lives and by people who startle us because in the
moment before it happens, you think you’re a respected, whole human being.
Sexual harassment is not so much sexual and/or harassment—it’s so demeaning, so
bad for your ego, you’re nothing in those situations. It is definitely part of
the power structure. Men are brutalized or harassed in other ways, treated
abominably at times in studios or agencies, but maybe what happens with women is
that guys feel they can go one step further to make us feel like shit.”
How much of it is still with us? Irma Herrera, the Executive Director of
Equal Rights Advocates, the nonprofit women’s law firm in San Francisco, says:
“About forty percent of our calls are about sexual harassment. Law students
answer that hotline and they really learn the amount of pain it causes women.”
Margaret Heidenry, a screenwriter (Something Borrowed), started as a
grip/electrician. She says it still happens “because it can. There are tons of
illegal things that people still do. It's about power, their power, and it's
about their sexuality."
“Men have to adjust. Get a grip,” says Sachs, a chief lighting technician
with many film and television credits (Nowhere to Run, White Sands). “Work is
not sitting in a bar with friends.”
Historian Rosalind Miles has written many fiction and nonfiction books
(Danger! Men at Work; Who Cooked the Last Supper: The Women’s History of the
World). She told me:
"To stop sexual harassment in Hollywood you'd have to rebuild the business,
but the dog-eat-dog industry practices, of which sexual harassment is only a
part, are not reflected in the films they make. No one is routinely depicted
behaving in this way and getting away with it. Sexual harassment is often
tolerated in 'creative' or 'artistic' men who are not expected to conform to a
nine-to-five morality. The right to have access to beautiful and exceptional
women and to use them for ‘rest and recreation’ is regarded as a legitimate perk
of the life, even though no one owns up to it. Women, too, think of it overtly
as a way to climb the greasy pole, and that perpetuates and even
institutionalizes it.”[iii]
[i] Gregory, Mollie. Quotes from Women Who Run the Show. St.
Martin’s Press.
[ii] Brownmiller, Susan. In Our Time: A Memoir of a Revolution. New
York: Dial Press, Random House, 1999. Pp 280-81. [See also MacKinnon,
Catherine. Sexual Harassment of Working Women. New Haven: Yale
University Press. ]
[iii] Miles, Rosalind. Her new book, Hell Hath No Fury: True
Profiles of Women at War, will be published by Crown, Sept. 2007.
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